the life and its phases..

The occurrence of different phases of life plays a very important role.  We can never forget experiences happened to us like our first step, our days to school, college, office and resting time.

Life begins when we take birth, see things, laugh and cry. Our first step is always memorable. The day when we stood on feet and started walking. Our little shaky steps are the beginning of tougher life ahead.

Soon the days come when we first attend the school. The outside world is new to us so does the teachers and the schoolmates.  The very first experience of leaving home for longs hours is really tough. Our heart is always scared for new learning there. In a little while we become used too of leaving our parents at home and enjoying the school life without any hassle. We got friends to play.

After few years, we step forward towards college, the time is quite enthusiastic and full of life. This is the best phase of enjoying life with a tension free and freak mind. We sing, we dance, we love, everything we do with just a little pocket money. These days are full of a lovely smile increasing our face value.

The most important and toughest part of the life comes when we became a bread owner and starts family. There is always a thought to earn, to do a lot of hard work. In this stage our mind is full of thoughts. We go to office, meet people, we discuss, we argue, we hate, we cry and finally we succeed if our efforts are right. Our body has the stamina to tolerate everything.

Next is the most peaceful of all, the resting time when we grew old. Our children and grandchildren are the best supporters for us. We see live from their prospective. It is the time to walk once again and to recollect the thoughts for what we won and what we lost.  Its time to sit on a park bench and thanks to god for all the good and the bad that came to us as our experience. It’s the time to pray to god for a healthy and better ending of life to reborn again.

 

Mentor- a path finder

Have you ever recall those scary school days with heavy bags and a thought of getting scolded for not doing the home work? Of course yes. The memory still frightens us but at the same instant we have an inner satisfaction of having what we always wanted to achieve in life. When a small child leaves his parent and go to school for the fist time, lot of things comes in mind and heart. Like why I am going to school? I wanted to stay with my parents as they care for me, Is anyone there who will take the same care? Every child has a memory of his mentor, some have bitter while some having pleasant. Faculty/teacher/ mentor, plays a very important role in our life. Alongside parents it’s our dean, our teacher, our mentor who makes us growing in every phase of life.

Mentoring- not just teaching

Talking about mentor- mentoring is not just teaching, it’s bringing the best out of a human being-specifically a child. Mentor is one who participates in your growth, as a companion, a guide, a person who knows your self next you and your parent. We learn from our mentor and our mentor learns from his experience analyzing us. Learning is somehow easy but mentoring is tough and tedious.

A tough job- mentoring

Knowing an individual is good but making an individual raise in multiple sequences of life is really admirable. Mentor does countless effort in collecting the cream out of us. He put his best foot forward to make us learn, to make us develop, to make us stand up if we fall. He knows our strengths/weaknesses and the maneuver to improve them every now and then. He’s the one who never regret of lacking our affection towards him due to his meticulous behavior. Rather he understood well that we are kids and in our learning phase which reveals his maturity. His every endeavor work towards our success. Not every time described by words, his appreciation is always with us if we seek success-even a small one.

So next time when you go to your institution with a heavy heart and a shivery thought of a healthy build/oiled hair/middle age person wearing thick spectacle-don’t be scared its you’re mentor, your guide, your way seeker, your path finder. Move on and give a warm great saying hello sir…how are you? Whether said or not, for sure you must have a blessing from him.

 

One of the sweetest emotion love …what is it?

· Love is when a twelfth standard guy proposed his class mate by whispering three beautiful words in her ears saying …I love you !

· Love is when two people wait for ten difficult years to get married one day.

· Love is when a husband and a wife spend twenty five long years graduating the ups and downs of life.

The wonderful obsession love success on the concept of mutual understanding, respect, trust, commitment and a lot more. It is the most treasured possession that each and every individual wants to embrace. The theory of love starts when you feel it. Intuition beings and immediately you will find yourself in love. It is the sentiment which should be expressed instantly as felt. It will make your life beautiful.

It is said that Love is felt from heart and expressed through eyes and you are ready to confide yourself without knowing the pros and cons that could be experienced by you when you be in love. A selfless loyalty you will develop gradually when you fall in love. Sometimes, you would get detached from the vincity of other thoughts beside love.

When love happens nothing seen by us, our mind stops working, we listen to heart and ready to do things that makes us distant from the rest of the world. We don’t feel to eat sleep, read, write and stand apart from our daily activities. Some says loves makes us good for nothing. It is blind. It takes ever happiness from us beside itself. Whatever it is what is love is only known when you really fall in love!

 

militants attack in mumbai

The terrorist attack in Mumbai has shattered the soul of thousand of Indians. On 26 Nov. 2008, Mumbai has seen the forged face of life. Hundred of people died in the deadly incident that took place in the Oberoi and Hotel Taj while many of them are injured, admitted in hospitals. People are still going through the toughest experience of rescue operation.

Police, army, commando forces are continuously trying to save the life of people as much as possible. But the incident has shaken the soul of number of Indians. This is not the first time when the terrorist are gaming with the life of innocent people. Such attacks have become very much popular from the past few years. The militants have been given a rigorous training for how they could take the life of people. Mostly the metropolitan cities like Mumbai, Delhi, and Bangalore are their focus targets.

When a common man watches the news of terrorist attack then all pressures are trap thinking it could happen to anyone anywhere. The big question which arises here is how to trust and whom to trust? Is the government people savy? Are we secured? Where to go? In such condition we are helpless as we just can’t sit back at home watching, listening and grieving to the so called cause. But again the question is what a common man can do?

We are helpless, helpless and completely HOPELESS! National capital of India Delhi is all set for elections. Today is the day to elect our new leader. But if the incident likes this keep on taking place then the loose trust on government will be completely lost for ever. In that case we have come up with full democracy …the democracy for not trusting the leaders, not to vote for anyone. The false promises they make are no way useful for any of us. The question is still there that finally who will come to halt this. Can anyone answer?

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life and us

‘Living life king size’, an old saying reveals a common man dream to live life at the fullest. But the rapid change of gaining success in the long run has been vanishing the choice of living. Living life peacefully according to your dream is not that easy. Chasing whatever you need is there today as nothing is easily achievable.

An easy example could uncover the fact that, initially study is harder, then getting job is harder and earning money is the ultimate thing that is hardest of all. So the next time you wish to buy an electronic camera for you think twice as how much it would cost you and will it be easy for you to buy it with the sudden thought coming to mind. Or think whether it would effect the installment you are giving for the luxury car you have purchased for you last year.

These are the small things that hinder your way towards peaceful life. Its not that you can’t enjoy harmony but it’s that you actually don’t know which path to follow. The choice of living totally depends upon us and the question arise “what we want from life?” We have to decide by our own, how we want to live whether dull or luxurious? We all want to run faster and win the ball game but almost, all of us are actually unaware of our capacity and needs.

Enlighten thy self

Mankind is a wonderful thing; an award that is given to us not to every living creature- what is needed is awareness, the awareness of needs and desire. But before that we must understood the difference between the two and our ability to run and achieve. Need is foremost important to every human being, it is the most important thing one must chase to get. The basic need of food, housing and clothing once accomplished then come the desire, the desire to study and then the desire to earn. If you are able to fulfill both of your desire then you could easily achieve whatever you dreamt for. Your wish of having an electronic camera will be fulfilled and at the same time you are able to pay the installment of the luxury car you have purchased. Whatever you think and do, always remember to – ‘Live life your size’.

 

The Blogging Age

Reading and writing have become the marvelous choice of lots of people since ages. It’s the hobby which gives you exposure and awareness on different things. Host of people read and write on daily basis. They share their experience of life with like minded people.

There is lots of stuff available such as newspaper/magazines/books giving you a feeling of easiness/comfort when you read them. They are laced with ample of topics of your choice including gossip/politics/spirituality/humour etc. You just need to find some time and space from your busy schedule for your hobby.

Technology has been doing a lot of good for people who love to read and write. The concept of internet helped a lot of bring people together worldwide. Internet which has helped us in many ways now brings the new concept of blogging for those who are reading and writing freak. Blogging is growing with a rapid pace which is basically described as sharing your experiences with others. There are many websites available on internet where you can post your blogs like bloggerspot/wordpress etc. One has to log in and sign in with the basic details.

Blogging- the concept of new age is twined with many advantages and disadvantages as well. One side it will make you to connect with people where you can seek the guidance/help by sharing your personal/professional-different kinds of experiences. Meanwhile it also improves your reading/writing skill. But every positive do have some negative.

Since many websites provides blogging for free of cost/charges lots of people sign up. Some stuff available on blogs is not healthy for examples blogs related to hacking usernames-passwords/ terrorism/pornography etc. These are some of the things which are not meant for children/teenagers which could divert their minds for doing something wrong. The owner of the websites/website administrator must be aware of the facts that these things should not be posted in the people’s blog section or if posted then there might be some restrictions of access to them. Secondly, there should be a proper check maintained on those who access and post on your blogs for unwanted abuse.

If technology has given us such a great option to expose ourselves and explore others then we should use it in a right sense and we must be aware of the fact that “good begets good”. To every action there is equal and opposite reaction.

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